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COPE
I shared with you a few weeks ago about a virtual retreat. With permission, I am able to invite you to my session on the retreat. How to...
May 11, 20221 min read


Thick Morning Fog
I was jolted awake by the phone on the bed side stand. Four o’clock am. The hospital voice on the other end gave me the details of a...
May 4, 20223 min read


Satin Ribbons and Flowers
The oak casket was surrounded by flowers of yellow, gold, red and orange. Enormous copper-colored mums took up floor space and autumn...
Oct 27, 20211 min read


Meet Gloria
I arrived at the nursing home; completed the appropriate documents at the nurse’s station. “Have a seat in the foyer and I’ll let the...
Sep 22, 20213 min read


In This Room
The hush filled the room. It wasn’t the normal quiet, void of distracting noises. This was the silence that demanded respect. This was...
Sep 15, 20214 min read


The Will to Grieve
My workout was complete, miles were logged, weight lifted was charted and sweat on my face and arms was being mopped by the white gym...
Sep 8, 20214 min read


The I in Grief
A peak into the Grief In Life workbook: Death has knocked me down and I can’t get up. The funeral is over. I’ve taken my bereavement days...
Sep 1, 20211 min read


Pieces of a Broken Heart
I was jolted out of a deep sleep at 3:00am. One ring, two rings, I rolled over, flipped on the light and answered the phone all before...
Jul 14, 20213 min read


In Honor of Father's Day
We sat on the edge of a hospital bed, witnessing the death of our dad; a bond was formed that will last a lifetime. Not everyone is...
Jun 16, 20211 min read


The Market Lady
I was walking through a street market the other day. At one of the vendor booths sat a lady on a stool. She didn’t notice the shoppers...
Jun 2, 20212 min read


Ready or Not, Here It Comes
Grief hits you out of the blue. Seemingly from nowhere, a wave of grief washes over you. You have no choice but to ride the wave until it...
May 19, 20212 min read


The "X" In The Box
The death is a traumatic death. We know the death. It is the one that is unexpected and untimely. It is the one that rips a loved one...
Feb 10, 20214 min read


The Heart of a Funeral Director
“How do you do what you do?” I hear this often, as a funeral director. Grief is hard, it’s messy and it’s profound. I learn a lot from...
Dec 30, 20202 min read
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